damn hips

Occasionally when out, I get hit on. It doesn't happen often, and even on occasion it is a female! Most times, it ends up being a guy. It is totally flattering (hell, anytime I get hit on I'm always surprised and flattered). One of the issues is that I am usually clueless as to when someone is hitting on me. The other issue, is that a lot of times it happens when I just want to go home. on the few occasions it has happened, and I either am oblivious and ignore it or turn down someone, they feel slighted... I'm not trying to lead on anyone!